but they mean well

By Jas Shirrefs

Year
2026
Medium
Mixed media
Dimensions
Availability
but they mean well — a gingham school dress on a hanger, an embroidered napkin sewn to the front

This mixed media work uses a school dress from an op shop. An embroidered napkin is sewn onto the front with the words ‘but they mean well’ in red thread. The embroidery looks childlike. On the back of this dress there are cut out holes to represent gaps Deaf people have in their education because of late accessible language input, leaving them with language deprivation and missing skills and learning opportunities. The holes are covered with bandages to make the language and cognitive injury visible. ‘But they mean well’ is often a response from hearing leadership to Deaf advocacy, it dismisses the impact of audism by saying their intent was pure. This work demands more attention is given to impact instead of intention.

Photo: Kit Edwards

Detail — “but they mean well” embroidered in red thread on the napkin
Detail — cut-out holes in the back of the dress, covered with bandage patches
Detail — patched holes along the hem of the dress